To be exact, I is choosing.
My friend keep telling me that "Nen, jangan memilih no wonder you're still single until now." But, the thing is I will be 28 this year and just accept or pick some random guy who I have no feeling for or trust for its not an option. I wanna be with someone who I can trust, who I feel safe with.
Yes, I'm choosing but for my future, my life, my kids (someday) and for my family. I'm choosing because at some point I will be marrying the one that I choose and he will be with me thru everything for the of my life. So yeah, I'm choosing for my future.
So When I choose a man, I mean forever. Like good or bad moment, sick and healthy, easy and hard times. I'll be with you and you'll be with me. That forever.
